Why This Japanese Woman Is Done With Her Parents by The Japanese Reporter

 

"Even if you're denied by everyone and you have nobody now, you definitely have to be alive, no matter how tough your life is. You definitely should not commit suicide. "
 

 

 

자식의 행복보다는 자신의 행복을 우선시하는 이기적이고 쓸모없는 부모를 만나는 것은 인생을 불행으로 이끄는 첫 단추다.

하지만 그것이 행운이 될 수도 있다.

 

 

As a parent disagreeing about involvement in porn that is one thing, but it is obvious there is a pattern of choosing sides and downplaying issues that were important to her all through her life growing up..... this is unacceptable and a failure on the parents part. It is a recurring theme that runs through all races and cultures no matter what country you are in. unfortunately we do not have the ability to choose our parents.. This makes my heart hurt .

 

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Reasons to have kids >you have a nurturing nature and want to help a child to navigate the world with fulfillment and joy Reasons not to have kids >for social status/feeling you're just supposed to have children

 

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That shit about parents dismissing your pains or trying to one-up you hits really hard. It was definitely what led me to distance myself from mine.

 

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You could see her sadness… it’s never good when parents think more of themselves than their child… and the child knows it.

 

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She has so much insight to see through her parent's bullshit. How many people go back to abusers because they thought they have changed or because they start receiving kindness. I'm so glad she has the intelligence to see her parents for who they really are and that she never needs to chase after them or beg them for help ever again.